To be honest, I feel like today's topic of "10 things you will never do in lolita" is kind of a set up for slut shaming, or to look down on those with a "alternative" lifestyle. Or maybe picking on itas. I could be wrong though!
I would never go hiking in lolita.
I will never fat shame a lolita. I will never comment on another lolita's body. Period.
I will never make another lolita feel bad for wearing offbrand, or replicas.
I will never give unsolicited advice. There is no reason to tell someone how to dress or give them advice if they don't ask.
I will never look down on someone who incooperates lolita into their cosplay.
I will never boast about how large my lolita wardrobe is, or how much brand I own.
I will never dissuade anyone from wanting to get into the style.
I will never treat someone harshly out of jealousy.
I will never stop loving the fashion.
I will never tell a lolita with tattoos to cover up.
I try my best to be a kind person, and be supportive of others. I know that the lolita community can be very catty and I do catch myself throwing my fair share of shade. Lolita is becoming more and more under the mainstream radar and it is my undying wish that we are represented in a positive light; not as a bunch of catty bitches who are nice to each other's faces but horrible once our backs are turned, or sad mentally ill little girls and boys.
Thanks for reading, lovelies!